If you've been asking yourself, Should I stay or leave my marriage?, you've probably been asking it for a while. Maybe months. Maybe even years. And if you're like many of the people I work with, you're not just thinking about it occasionally. You're thinking about it all the time.

Maybe you suspected it and maybe you were completely blindsided. Either way, it  feels like an emotional earthquake. The very ground beneath you —your relationship, your reality—is suddenly no longer solid. This is TRAUMA.

“I’m not happy” “I love you but I’m not in love”  “I want a divorce” … In cases like these where divorce is on the table, couples therapy is not the answer. Discernment Counseling is.